Single Males must call The Hot Spot to RSVP for a party. If necessary, we will limit the number of single males per evening based on the amount of couples and single females.
If you are a single and are new to swinging, please continue reading for some helpful hints about being a single at the club:
While you are more than welcome to talk to and introduce yourself to others, never touch another person without their permission. Do not assume that because a couple(s) is having sex that you can just join in, you must be invited to participate or ask permission to join in. If you have not been invited, keep your distance and leave the couple(s) alone. This is common courtesy and should be followed by all.
Remember many of the couples at the club are new and may be afraid to tell you they prefer not to have you even watch, the respectful thing to do is limit the time you watch anyone and do not follow other guests around. Many couples enjoy being watched, some are there just for that reason, but unless you know that ahead of time you may be causing them more discomfort that you might think. You will have a much better chance in getting together with a couple if you sit and talk with them downstairs before following them around upstairs.
Many couples are looking for single friends. Even if only one member of a couple is looking to play, do not ignore the partner when getting to know each other. The club is a social atmosphere as any club, and common courtesy is expected.
Single males only get 1 chance. If you break the rules, do not act like a gentleman, or become a problem in anyway, you will be asked to leave and never return. We have many single men who would love to attend our parties, trouble makers are not needed. If you cannot follow the instructions , please do not waste our time, we will only turn you down.
Husbands that want to attend as a single, you must also RSVP via phone or email for each party to make sure we do not already have too many. Do not show up and she is not with you and we have not spoken with you first, we will turn you away at the door.